i was just talking to my friend on msn...well one of my really good friends..well he says "best mate"..lol.. i have been friends with him for like a decade and that is no exaggeration. our older sisters are/were friends, our younger sisters were friends and our parents are good friends.

i hadnt spoken to him in ages, well a couple of weeks anyway, but still that is a fair time.

i love it how you talk to someone and you havent spoken to them in ages but when you talk it is like you just saw each other yesterday, you never run out of something to say. that's how it was tonight. it was really good to catch up.

i had been meaning to ask him something since july. i have just wanted to know what he thought about the whole situation and if his opinion of me had changed. i finally asked him tonight. i didnt expect anything bad, but it could have been bad for me though if he did decide to take sides. his answer was really comforting and sure did put a smile on my face. i guess it is like what he said "true friends will always be friends"

it is nice to know where you stand in a relationship, even if it is just friends. it is so nice to hear someone say that you are best friends.

if you are feeling insecure and they say that, it is so relieving and just makes you feel better even though there was no reason to even doubt it in the first place.